![]() He is being abusive to you (the language you referred to), and you're not doing him any favors by allowing that behavior. It is very important, however, that you give him a clear message about what is acceptable in your home. It is not uncommon for these types of problems to develop with young adults like your son living at home after having some kind of difficulty out in the world. The more you relax and let go, the more likely he will be to open up with you. That's totally up to him, and there isn't anything you can do to speed up the process. He will either tell you about what happened, or he won't. I will try to help you figure out what to do about your relationship with your son. Hello Sonia, and thanks for telling your story on this site. What am I to do? Let him go, or keep on and try to find out what happened? He says he does not have ADHD, and is not bipolar, and does not have severe anxiety disorder or severe depression, just situational anxiety. Does not advise him or communicate on issues with him and has a poor listening habit. His father is very kind, with no questions asked. His father is not abusive in any way, and has never raised a hand to him. I forgive him a lot and it seems he is slightly better with me now but dislikes his father’s eating, dressing up, berating pattern. He says he has no motivation, but he is extremely smart. ![]() It seems he has many dreams but no action. But he does not know how he is going to pay for his way. He wants to go to California to get a job and find a way back to school. He calls us names and says f_ you and all women are b_ and so on. He says he is ashamed of his father’s job, which is manager of a fast food store. He does not tell us why he left school and his fraternity, only that he does not have friends there. He gets angry easily, breaks things and tears his clothes, but does not hit anyone. He left a prestigious college in his 5th semester and came home. Make sure they bring a camera to capture the fun.My son is 20 years old. They can also join in the post-race party. Friends and family will be able to share in your muddy exploits without leaving the start/finish area. The event will be held on the best spectator course in the region. There's also a post race shower and party. Kids can run multiple times if they have the energy, and parent are welcome to run alongside.Ĭost ranges from $45-75 for the main course (register early for the best deal!) and includes the race, a T-shirt, finishers award, and chip timing. The Mini-Mudder will be a run-as-you-come affair, with the course open from 9 a.m. Your group should register early to make sure there is room for all in your chosen heat. Participants can designate which heat in which they would like to compete. ![]() There's no age limit (top or bottom) for the big course, but runners should be able to handle all (or most) of the obstacles themselves and our youngest entrants should be running in the same heat as a parent or guardian.Ĭan we run in the same heat as our friends? The race is scheduled for this August. We'll have a short course, long course and a Mini-Mudder for kids. Slow down, get muddy and enjoy the opportunity to get real dirty without having to make excuses. And don't worry! It's not a race unless you want it to be. The LC Valley Down and Dirty Mud Run is part cross country run, part obstacle course for adults and children of all ages and athletic abilities.
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